wick05,
http://www.pccasegear.com.au/ is a great site for purchasing the fans and coolers... I've picked up all my 'silencing' stuff from them - great service and reasonable prices.
You could also check out the Zalman/Thermaltake type fanless VGA coolers... not badly priced and will save you from a new graphics card if you really want to quieten it down but not replace it...
I was shocked by the noise on my stock MSI motherboard... two NOISY fans... so I replaced the Northbridge and just disconnected the mosfet fan as the heatsink did a good enough job...
Hope this all helps... keep us informed on your changes and progress!
frenzz.